How to protect yourself from dating scams

    One thing you should know about Ukrainian ladies is that they cannot be bought. You can win them over only with kindness, sensitivity and respect.

    In Ukraine, the development of modern society has gradually been changing the perception of women. Women today have to adapt to the changes that are happening in the country and in the world and therefore, reconsider their social role. As a result, it is more common today to see businesswomen - presidents of large companies and women taking leading positions in state organisations. Ukrainian women are punctual and diligent and have thus begun to dominate in the sphere of management. They have actually started to earn more than men. However, Ukrainian women's desire to get married, to make a family and have children has not disappeared. For them family is the most important thing in life and they would always choose family over career. In Ukraine it is natural to see women coming back from work to be carrying heavy grocery bags, while men would come home with just a briefcase or maybe a bottle of beer. The women who are looking for foreign husband are like any other human being looking for happiness and a better life. They want to be able to act and feel like ladies, not some machines, who work, wash, cook, clean, and carry groceries... They dream of being with true gentlemen, who would treat them with respect and passion.

    Ukrainian women long to feel loved, desired and needed. If you manage to make her feel this way, she is yours. Demonstration of tenderness, flowers, gifts, all these are good ways towards a Ukrainian woman's heart! Ukrainian women often complain that Ukrainian men are quite impolite. Therefore being kind and gentle is probably the best strategy - show her consideration and good manners and she would definitely appreciate them. You should not be shy to show you are interested in her. In fact, in Ukraine this is considered to be a good way for winning a woman's heart.

    Ukrainian women are quite conservative about sex in the beginning of a relationship. Even though you have gotten along great in your letters and phone calls, when you meet her, take it slow and see how she responds. It is better not to speak about sex the first time as in Ukraine people discuss such things when they are in a further stage of the relationship. Do not feel sorry for her because in most cases she'd hate it, for it would make her feel bad about herself and would hurt her self-esteem. You'd rather show your respect and show her you admire her beauty, intelligence and her ability to take care of herself. Women like it, when their efforts are being appreciated. It is very important to demonstrate that you are a reliable, serious person. In your letters show her that she can count on you and that you always live up to your promises. If you promise to call her, do so at the appointed time; if you tell her that you are going to visit, show up on the arranged date. These little things show your seriousness and reliability.

    Many Ukrainian men do not treat their women in a special way, which is in fact, the shortest way to a girl's heart. You should be able to see her unique qualities and compliment her, pointing out nice things about her personality and appearance. Things, that other people may not see...

    Giving gifts is an important part of winning every woman... It is absolutely necessary to give her flowers even without an occasion... You may also take her shopping and let her choose something to remind her about the good time you two spent together. Ukrainian women appreciate kindness and you can be sure they would show their gratitude in the very future. So, do not remind your lady of the things you have done for her. Make her feel precious and not too easy to get.

    Make her wonder. Never tell a woman everything about you on the very first date. Remember that as long as the mystery factor is alive she will always be interested in you.

    Keep her alert. A very good way to actually make girls like you is to keep their minds ticking all the time. The best way to do this, is to first talk to her in a manner which directly appeals to her emotions and then tell her a story but stop in the middle and tell her you'd finish it next time. Doing so, will keep her thinking about you and what's about to come in the story.

    Never be reactive. Try and be socially intelligent and try to detach yourself from the outside world around you. Be someone who is not being affected by what others think or have to say about him. This is a rare, but very much appreciated quality by women.

    Trust her. There are a lot of stories on the Internet telling about scammers and persuading you to not believe anyone... On the other hand, if you don't trust your woman you will never get an opportunity to find true love. So, trust her. And do not be shy to show your true nature, your character and your inner qualities... Ukrainian women are very kind hearted so if you are open and honest you would most definitely conquer your Ukrainian lady's heart!